Individual Therapy for Women Who Are Tired of Carrying It All Alone
Some adults don’t just have “a past.”
They have childhoods they’re still healing from.
Sexual abuse.
Incest.
Family neglect.
Being the parentified child.
Being the “peacemaker” in a toxic home.
Growing up in chaos and calling it normal.
Religious trauma that made you feel small, guilty, or unworthy.
Relationships that mirrored your childhood wounds.
Attracting people who drain you, use you, or abandon you.
Reading every self-help book on the shelf — but still stuck in the same patterns.
If this is you…
You don’t need another book. You need transformation.
And that’s where I come in.
I Specialize in Adults With Deep, Untreated Trauma — The Kind That Starts Before Age 18 and Shows Up Everywhere
The clients who come to me are strong, intelligent women who look like they “have it together,” but internally feel:
Exhausted
Overwhelmed
Invisible
Unloved
Rejected
Triggered
Lost
Angry
Guilty
Numb
They’re the ones who were told to “be the good girl,” “make peace,” “don’t make a scene,” or “pray harder.”
They’re the ones who became therapists and healers in their own relationships, always fixing everyone else while slowly breaking inside.
And they’re the ones who desperately want to stop repeating childhood patterns in their adult relationships.
That’s my specialty.
Why Clients Switch to Me After Leaving Other Therapists
Because I’m not here to judge you.
I’m not here to sugarcoat.
I’m not here to keep you in therapy for three years seeing zero change.
My clients come to me because they heard:
🔥 “Amber is a straight shooter.”
🔥 “She gets quick results.”
🔥 “She doesn’t judge you — at all.”
🔥 “She understands trauma in ways other therapists didn’t.”
🔥 “She tells me the truth AND shows me how to change.”
This is trauma therapy + emotional rewiring + boundaries + self-worth — all wrapped inside a safe, culturally aware space where nothing shocks me.
Nothing.
The Women I Work Best With (Ages 20–40)
I love working with women who:
Grew up with trauma they’ve never spoken out loud
Are done attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic partners
Want to understand why they can’t stay in a healthy relationship
Want boundaries but feel guilty setting them
Read every self-help book but don’t know how to apply anything
Feel like they’re “too much” or “not enough” at the same time
Are rebuilding after religious, cultural, or family-based shame
Are ready to stop being the doormat
I always tell my clients:
“If you lay down like a doormat, why are you surprised people walk on you?”
My job is to help you stand up — emotionally, mentally, spiritually — and stay standing.
How We Transform Your Life
I combine:
✨ Trauma-Informed Care
✨ Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
✨ Inner Child & Attachment Work
✨ Real-life boundary setting
✨ Cognitive restructuring
✨ Identity healing
This isn’t “talk therapy.”
This is root-cause work that changes who you become.
Who I Serve
I work with:
Black, White, Hispanic, Jewish, and culturally diverse women
Middle-class to ultra-high-net-worth individuals
First-generation strivers
Women from strict or religious backgrounds
Professionals, entrepreneurs, educators, therapists, and mothers
Trauma doesn’t discriminate — and neither do I.
Let’s Be Honest
Because of the level of intensity and personalization in my work,
I only take a limited number of individual clients at a time.
Once those spots are full, they’re full.
If you’re reading this and a spot is open, it means someone completed their journey — and their seat is temporarily available.
If You’re Ready to Change Your Entire Story…
Not just the symptoms.
Not just the patterns.
Not just the relationships.
YOU.
If you’re tired of surviving, tired of shrinking, tired of repeating, tired of hurting…
This is where you stop breaking and start becoming.
(Serious clients only — this level of work isn’t for everyone.)
ADULT TRAUMA FAQ SECTION
FAQ: How do I know if I need trauma therapy?
If you’re repeating the same relationship patterns, struggling with boundaries, overthinking everything, or carrying pain from childhood (even if you've never said it out loud), trauma therapy isn’t just helpful — it’s necessary.
FAQ: I’ve been in therapy before and it didn’t work. How is this different?
Most clients find me after they leave a therapist who judged them, minimized them, or gave them surface-level advice.
My approach is:
Direct
Trauma-informed
Root-cause focused
Fast-moving
Non-judgmental
Clients come to me because they finally want results — not just conversations.
FAQ: What kinds of trauma do you specialize in?
I work with adults carrying deep, early trauma such as:
Childhood sexual abuse
Incest
Emotional neglect
Toxic or narcissistic parents
Religious trauma
Parentified child roles
Being the “peacemaker” in a dysfunctional family
Attachment trauma in relationships
Being stuck in toxic relationship cycles
If it shaped you, I can help you unlearn it.
FAQ: Why do I keep choosing the wrong people?
Your childhood teaches you what “love” feels like — even if it was unsafe.
We work on rewiring those patterns so you stop confusing trauma bonds with chemistry.
FAQ: Can you help me set boundaries? I feel guilty every time I try.
YES.
Boundaries aren’t natural when you were raised to be “good,” “quiet,” “helpful,” or “the fixer.”
I teach boundaries that feel:
Clear
Strong
Guilt-free
Aligned with your worth
No more doormat energy.
FAQ: Why am I still struggling in my 20s and 30s? Shouldn’t I be over my childhood by now?
Childhood trauma doesn’t disappear with age.
It shows up as:
Anxiety
People-pleasing
Over-functioning
Shame
Relationship chaos
Attracting emotionally unavailable people
Feeling “not enough” or “too much”
You’re not broken — you’re wounded. And wounds can heal.
FAQ: Do you work with clients from different cultures or religious backgrounds?
Absolutely.
I serve Black, White, Hispanic, Jewish, first-generation, Christian, secular, and culturally diverse clients — from middle-class to ultra-high-net-worth.
Trauma is universal.
Healing is personal.
FAQ: Do you take everyone who applies?
No.
Because the work is deep and high-touch, I only accept a limited number of adult clients at a time.
If a spot is available, it means another client successfully graduated.
Trauma therapy for adults healing childhood sexual abuse, emotional neglect, toxic family dynamics, and religious trauma.
Offering DBT, boundary-setting support, attachment healing, and recovery for women ages 20–40 who struggle with people-pleasing, self-worth, and repeating unhealthy relationship patterns.
Serving clients across New Jersey, Georgia, and Florida with specialized online & in-person trauma therapy, women’s therapy, and individual therapy for adult survivors of childhood trauma.
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